Friday, May 26, 2017

Adventure Update #1

As I knew it would be, this dream of finding the right job in order to relocate to Collierville has been a challenge, yet I have peace knowing that God already knows the end of the story.

I have applied for many jobs in the Memphis area, and for one remote position with Mercy for Animals, but no interviews have been scheduled as a result.  Part of that, I believe, is due to the fact that my resume contains a lot of part-time and short-term employment during the years I put my family first by working from home to raise my children.  Society will not honor that, but I trust God will.

Please continue to watch and pray with us as God works out his plan and as I continue my search for employment.  God be praised.




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Monday, May 22, 2017

A New Adventure

Three years ago our family embarked on an adventure -- moving to Virginia so my husband could take a job and be near his brother.  So many things factored into that adventure, and God moved in amazing ways.  Many of you followed our adventure and were instruments of God's grace and provision during that difficult and complicated yet exhilarating season of our lives.

We have loved our life in Virginia. God could not have chosen a more ideal location to plant our family. The surroundings are beautiful, we have enjoyed our jobs, our kids have done well here, and we have grown to love our church family.  As much as I miss the family, friends, and church we left behind in Tennessee, we have been quite happy.  But lately I have experienced a restlessness that I have felt before...a calling away from that which is familiar to something entirely off my radar.

With Joy finishing up her junior year, our family has been praying about the possibility of Joy and me returning to Collierville so she can enjoy her last year of high school with lifelong friends and I can live much closer to my mom and other family in the area.  As we pray about this new adventure, we are trusting God to once more move mountains and work in amazing ways to accomplish His will for us.

Please join us in praying:
  • Above all that God's will be done, and that it be crystal clear.  His vision for us is far greater than ours and we trust him to do what is best for all our family.
  • For an administrative job for me that will make a year-long relocation affordable and allow us to support two households.  If you know of employers who might have a need for a qualified administrative professional who is a team player, has a strong work ethic, and has worked at all organizational levels, please give them my contact info or forward me theirs. I am currently applying for positions on my own but could really use the referrals!  Most of you know my personality and can vouch for my character, if not my abilities in the work place.
  • For affordable pet-friendly housing for Joy, me, and our well-trained cat.  A furnished guest house or pool house would be ideal and help keep our moving expenses down, but a small house or apartment would be good too.  Our residence must be zoned for Collierville High School.
Believing that God is at work in this, I have resigned my current job effective June 15 and am actively seeking full-time employment. Since work is not an option, we are trusting God to open doors, lead us into his perfect will, and supply all our needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.

Thanks for praying us through our last adventure three years ago, and for taking part in this new one.  We are waiting expectantly for God's guidance and provision and will keep you updated!

My contact information is provided below.  Please share it with anyone who might be looking for a capable and qualified administrative professional like me!  (Click HERE to download a copy of my resume.)

Email:  ddwike@gmail.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ddwike
Twitter:  https://twitter.com/DeeDeeWike
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/ddwike/
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/deedeewike/
Websites:  www.deedeewike.com; www.feelingveggiegood.com

Blessings from Virginia!

Dee Dee





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Sunday, April 30, 2017

Curing Mrs. Cranky

Ever have one of those days when you are cranky -- miserably cranky?  A day when nothing makes you happy... not worship, or a leisurely walk on a beautiful breezy morning, or even a nap?  Today has been one of those days for me and nothing -- NOTHING -- has helped. Usually when my attitude turns sour I can turn on a little praise music and enter into a litany of thanksgiving for all the blessings I DO have.  But today that hasn't cured my crankiness.

Scripture tells us that "godliness with contentment is great gain" (1 Timothy 6:6, NIV). I have a daily quiet time, attend weekly worship, give generously, and do all I can to walk in obedience to God's word.  Though not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, I do strive to live a godly life. But that's only half the equation.  What about contentment?

Paul, though persecuted, imprisoned, and subject to all manner of suffering, seems to have mastered contentment.  "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.  I can do all this through him who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:12-13). If I am a surrendered believer yet still struggle with contentment -- or at least with being cranky on occasion -- does that make me less a Christian?

When I am cranky I want to isolate myself from those around me because I know that nothing positive is going to come out of my mouth.  Every word will be nagging and nit-picky. The tension becomes more than I can bear. Sometimes my attitude, if it is driven by fatigue, can be greatly helped with a nap and a re-boot of my day.  But when it can't....

What even makes us cranky in the first place?  What causes us to complain and criticize when most of us are blessed beyond measure?  Perhaps these verses from James 4:1-3 may shed a little light: "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God.  When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures."  Hmmm.

Lately I have been praying big prayers, looking to God for provision and big answers, and wondering why he has been silent. I have had a running conversation with him about his will over mine, and with myself about the possibility that the two might be in conflict. Lord, I hope my prayer is in line with your will.  I feel caught somewhere between faith and unbelief -- between dreaming of what could be and the reality that the present might be all there is for now.  Here's the bottom line:  if my prayers are in line with God's will, then no amount of fretting will usher in his answer and provision before the appointed time.

Jesus knows that stressing over the details of life can make us all a little cranky at times, and mercifully he forgives us when we allow our preoccupation with worldly cares to steal our joy. In Matthew 6:33-34, he gently reminds us to "seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

If there is one thing I have learned, God truly is able to handle the details of our lives with little help from us. He is working behind the scenes in ways we cannot see, making a way for his will to be accomplished, even when we are not sure what his perfect plan is.  He wants to bless his children, even if that means his "no" is our greater "yes."  The question is, do we really trust him to do what is best for us?


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Friday, February 24, 2017

Not My Own

Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body.  (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, Bereans Study Bible)

It has been a beautiful spring day in my neighborhood, a perfect Friday to cap off a busy work week. Many thoughts are running through my mind as I write this -- the physical I had yesterday, a closed door, financial needs that I'm confident God is going to supply, the lack of time I have to write and maintain two blogs, the joy of seeing trees and flowers in bloom at the end of a dreary, dark winter. 

How thankful I am to be alive! How grateful I am to have a reason -- several, actually -- to get out of bed each day.  To work at a job I love, watch my children grow into responsible adults, and to have the love of one man for over thirty years are blessings I do not take for granted. I have had many jobs I did not love, have survived the challenging years of raising teens, and have had my heart broken by "could have beens." God has been faithful in the good times and the bad.

I learned a long time ago that life, as hard as it may be at times, is much better lived on God's terms than on mine. A life surrendered to His will is a far greater adventure than I could ever have imagined. 

I am not my own. My possessions, my health, my job, my children, and my spouse are not my own. God reserves the right to rearrange the life I love any way He chooses, at any time. Surrendered to Him, I am fearless. Trusting in Him, I am triumphant. Living each day to the fullest and for His glory are my highest aspirations.  

To be fully His rather than to be my own is a joy, not a burden, and I wouldn't have it any other way!


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Thursday, February 2, 2017

Why I Gave Up Cable TV

"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is" (Ephesians 5:15-17, ESV).
People already think I'm weird because I went vegan in 2016, but even stranger perhaps is my decision to give up cable TV, or at least most of the channels our family has enjoyed these past three years. Not that there is anything wrong with watching television -- I am simply not disciplined enough to step away from it and give my attention to more beneficial activities and interests.  I did subscribe to a basic programming package that will give us network and public broadcasting channels. After all I do need to know what tomorrow's weather will be and the news that affects my family. But the cost is exorbitant, the value limited, and my time too precious to be spent on something of so little benefit.

But why did I really downgrade my cable subscription?  Because I am convinced that God has bigger plans for me than to mindlessly watch hours of sappy love stories, and because the hard-earned money he has entrusted to our family can be better invested in doing his will and enriching the lives of others.

It is hard to hear God's voice when the TV is on all the time. It is easy to let TV become an excuse to put off exercise or that important project that needs my attention. TV has stolen too much from me -- dreams, inspiration, time, and money.

Is there something that is robbing you of the truly important things, like relationships with family and friends or that special task to which God has called you? TV, social media, and even "good causes" can distract us from the more important things.

"If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth" (Colossians 3:1-2, ESV).



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Thursday, January 26, 2017

This Is a Test...This Is Only a Test

Here I sit, in exactly the same predicament I faced this time last year, wondering how God is going to pull off the miracle I need. It's true, you know. History does have a uncanny way of repeating itself. Question is, as I go through this test will I have the patience to endure it and better yet, keep in mind that God has come through so many times before?  Or will I do what I am so prone to do -- take charge and try to come up with the solution all by myself? That seldom turns out well for me.

Life is full of tests. Tests that make us squirm and steal our joy. What if in the heat of the furnace we could remember, "This is a test.  This is only a test"?

I don't know how God is going to work this out. I only have to know that He is. I don't have to do anything but pray, wait, and trust him -- to guide me, to open and close doors, and to supply my every need according to his glorious riches (Philippians 4:19). He is able to do immeasurably more than I can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).  "He knows the way that I take, and when he has tested me I shall come forth as gold" (Job 23:10).

What impossible problem are you facing today? Do you have the faith to take God at his word and to believe in what he has promised to do for you?

Even for the most seasoned believer it can be hard -- so very hard -- to surrender ourselves to God's unseen plan and trust him with the outcome. But with God, the one who works all things together for the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose (Romans 8:28), nothing is impossible.




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Saturday, January 14, 2017

Is God's Will a Cop-Out?

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. -- Romans 12:1-2, ESV
Recently someone asked me to pray for God's will in a particular matter. It was a situation that could easily be changed by a willful decision to make different choices that could be beneficial. As I pondered a response I wondered just how often we use "God's will" as a cop-out rather than simply walking in obedience to it, doing what His Word tells us and experiencing the blessings that come as a result of our obedience.

Many times I have used "God's will" to justify purchases of things I didn't really need, resulting in debt, or actions that were premature and clearly outside of His perfect will for my life.

If I know that God's will is for me is to be in good health (3 John 2) and to treat my body as the temple of His Holy Spirit (1 Cor. 6:19-20), I am not going to pray for His will to make that happen. I am going to pray for His conviction and strength to resist the foods I know to be harmful to my body and to eat the foods that will nourish it. I am going to exercise my fearfully and wonderfully made body (Psalm 139:14) rather than spend countless hours sitting behind a computer or in front of a TV.

Sometimes God's will depends on our willingness to act upon His will. It is not enough to daily surrender our lives to His will, we also need to choose to walk in obedience to it.

There will be times when it is appropriate to pray for God's will, such as when we are faced with circumstances over which we have no control or critical decisions that must be made. For instance, knowing God's will is that "none should perish" (2 Peter 3:9) without a saving knowledge of His Son, we should pray for God's will and salvation in the lives of our unsaved friends and loved ones. When others are faced with chronic diseases or terminal illness we need to pray for God's healing and His will for their lives. But we need to realize that when it comes to those things we can control and know to be God's will our prayer should be for wisdom, strength, and conviction to do His will.



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